Over 70 dating: yes, really
At seventy-something you know what matters: good company, a proper conversation, someone to share the crossword with — and a little romance, if you fancy it.
Membership prices are listed openly on our prices page.
Some people will raise an eyebrow. Let them.
Wanting someone to talk to over breakfast, to ring in the evening or to take to the concert is one of the most ordinary wishes there is — at 30 or at 80.
Letters, phone calls, lunch on Thursdays, or something more. You decide what it is.
What dating over 70 is often really about
Company, more than romance
Someone to share a meal with, to talk the news over, to notice when you’ve had a good day. A perfectly good thing to want — so say it.
Friendship first
Plenty of people would rather start as friends and see. Say so in your profile, and the right people will want the same.
Living alone after decades
After a long marriage, an empty house can be very loud. Reaching out isn’t disloyal. It’s living.
Health and mobility
A stick, a hearing aid, a bad hip, no car these days. Most people your age have something. Mention it lightly — it’s rarely the problem you fear.
What the family will think
They may worry, tease or be thrilled. Often all three. There’s a word for them further down.
Somewhere new
Moved somewhere smaller, or nearer family? New people nearby make a new place feel like home — faster.
Dating after 70: three simple moves
Decide what you’d like
Company? Friendship? Love? “Someone to have lunch with on Thursdays” is a fine place to start.
Write, then ring
A few messages, then a phone call. A voice tells you a great deal — and it’s half the fun.
Meet somewhere you like
A favourite café, a garden, the library tearoom. Somewhere with a good seat and better cake.
What to write when you’re over 70
You don’t need to sell yourself. Just let someone hear your voice on the page.
Talk about your days, as they are
"I read the paper cover to cover, feed the birds and walk to the shops every morning" paints a real picture. Real is attractive.
Be honest about mobility
"I walk slowly, but I walk every day" is honest and warm, and it helps the right person suggest the right outing.
Say what kind of company you’d like
Phone calls, a lunch partner, a dance partner, a travel companion, or someone to love. Clear is attractive.
A photo from this year
People like to recognise you when you meet. A clear, smiling photo from this year is perfect.
Seventy-four, widowed, still dancing (carefully). Looking for a Saturday tea-dance partner and a good chat.
Retired engineer. I don’t drive these days, but I know every bus route in town. Coffee?
Mostly after friendship. If we end up holding hands at the cinema, I won’t complain.
These are writing examples, not real members.
If your mum, dad or grandparent is dating over 70
Worried? Fair enough — but don’t talk them out of it. Be the person they can check things with, agree on the money rule together, and ask how it’s going with curiosity, not suspicion. If they’re happy, let them be happy.
Never send money to anyone you meet online. Whatever the story.
Tell a friend where you’re off to — then enjoy yourself. Anyone who asks for money, bank details or secrecy doesn’t get another reply.
Over 70 dating FAQ
Am I too old for this?
No. There’s no upper age for a good conversation — or a good date.
Is it fine to look only for friendship?
Absolutely. Say so in your profile and you’ll save everyone time — including the people looking for exactly the same.
I have health problems. Should I mention them?
You don’t owe anyone your medical history. Mentioning practical things, like walking slowly or not driving, simply helps plan good dates.
My family thinks I’ll be scammed. What do I say?
Show them our money rule. Agreeing to talk to them before any money decision usually puts everyone’s mind at rest — and the rest is your business.
Other ages, other countries
Fifty- or sixty-something? These pages are yours.
Good company is worth a look.
Have a look whenever you feel like it. Someone interesting might be looking too.
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